things to never reveal to your guy
Who has never wanted to keep an image of a princess, of a perfect girl in the eyes of her Jules? So, is all truth good to tell? Or should we make a secret garden or no one can enter? If you want your darling to look at you with loving eyes, as if you were unique, here are 10 little things not to reveal to him at the beginning of the relationship.
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Your discussions with your ex(s)
Your friend shouldn’t know that you’ve kept in touch with your ex, let alone that you’ve had fun archiving all his emails/text messages so you can reread his love words. You have a hard time drawing a line. surely. Everyone has a hard time sweeping away the past with a wave of a magic wand, the whole thing is to be discreet while waiting for this ardent passion to slowly die out. Nostalgia remains present for a long time, but it fades with time, until it erases everything, as if nothing had existed. Your boyfriend doesn’t necessarily want to know your sentimental past. Your present is him, and no one else.
Your diary (things to never reveal to your guy)
Being honest and sincere towards your boyfriend is good, and even recommended. But Jules certainly does not want to dive, head first, into the infernal complexity of your girl brain, nor to know all your problems and all your disillusioned questions about your complicated life. Keep your newspaper under your bed, it belongs only to you. One day, perhaps, you will explain to him more calmly what is going on in your head. For now, the simple and spontaneous girl that you are, suits him perfectly.
Your hours spent waiting for his call
Admit to him that you waited for his call all night, that you could not close your eyes as you were afraid that he had forgotten you… It shows him that you attach far too much importance to him. Firstly, he may be frightened by your feelings a little too stuffy, secondly, he might believe that everything is taken for granted and no longer make efforts to make your heart beat. So, yes, you are stressed when it does not respond within a minute to your text messages, or when, after promising to call you, your phone does not ring. Nothing serious, he’s a guy. Remember that we do not work in the same way!
Your possessiveness (things to never reveal to your guy)
No need to offer him a good cause to leave you right away! Ok, you really have the balls because sir decided to go for a drink with his friends tonight, when you would have outright preferred to spend the evening huddled against him, in the sofa. either. But he should not know that. So you take out your mask in a good mood, display your biggest smile and swing one at him: “of course darling, have fun with your friends. Just now.” After if you really want, when he’s gone, you can cry, gobble up Nutella and list all its flaws on a post it.
Your photos buried in a box
Your darling does not need to know that until three years ago you wore baggy, had atebas in your hair and had an extreme passion for skaters. Even less that you didn’t have a style and you really didn’t know how to dress, that your face looked more like a cross country than a rose petal. In short, frankly, you do not have to show him these famous photos … what have you yourself moved away from your own view by the way!
Your weakness for blondes
Jules is a beautiful dark brown. And you love it sincerely. However, you really fall for blondes, English type. Be careful not to tell him, he would be offended. In addition, it’s pretty much your Jules like that, right?
Your big cotton panties (things to never reveal to your guy)
No, you also don’t need to sleep with your big panties… Yes yes, the ones you love so much and are so nice! Prefer your tangas and your tight boxers, it’s still sexier.
Your love of youth
Yes you loved Vincent more than anything. This beautiful blond met on the sand of the south, with whom you watched the sun set on the sea… surely. You are entitled to keep these beautiful memories in the depths of your heart… but not to spread them out in the open, in front of your current darling.