questions to ask at the beginning of the relationship
Sometimes we embark on a relationship a little sure a whim, or rather a love at first sight. And the first moments are wonderful because passion and love overshadow everything else. But it may make sense, if you want to do things right, to take a step back and really realize, what you’ve embarked on. So here are 6 smart questions to ask your partner at the beginning of the relationship to help you determine if your relationship has a chance of ending somewhere.
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Obviously, these questions are to be asked when you feel that things are moving forward between you, when you are already in a relationship! Otherwise, if you ask him these questions after three weeks, you are sure of one thing: to make him flee!
Similarly, it should not look like an interrogation, it is a question to ask him one by one in time!
What are you looking for?
Perhaps you want a story without a headache, a kleenex relationship, a purely carnal relationship, or rather a serious relationship… Either way, you probably want your partner to be in the same vein. Otherwise, if one of you is much more involved in the relationship than the other, you will be in trouble… So make sure you put things right!
Do you think we both have a chance? (questions to ask at the beginning of the relationship)
In other words, a common future. Because it can be good to make sure that you do not waste time or money in a relationship to which your partner does not see any way out anyway. Because no matter how hard you try to keep your couple afloat, if you don’t do this work together, it won’t work.
What do you think of me?
No, you are not particularly looking for your partner to give you compliments, or an ode to your beauty. But it is important that you know what attracts your partner to your home. And what is the power and intensity of his feelings towards you. And, if it is not always easy to answer this question, your partner will be able to answer you as honestly as possible if he/she is really attracted to you.
How do you see your future in the ideal? (questions to ask at the beginning of the relationship)
By asking him to project himself, you will see for yourself if your needs and expectations match. For example, if he wants to have children and this is not your case, it can be very complicated for the future. Similarly, if you dream of living in Paris while it flourishes in the middle of trees and the forest, it may be more difficult for you to project yourself together.
Are you happy?
A difficult question, of course! But it will allow you to know if in the whole of his life, your partner is fulfilled. You will necessarily be included in his answer.
For you, what qualities should the ideal woman have?
Do not rush if you do not completely find yourself in its description! It will also allow you to see if it can stick in the long term or not between the two of you.