Do I still like it? test
Are you a couple in love?
Do you doubt your feelings and this situation is eating away at you? First of all read this article that will allow you to see more clearly.
Here’s a test that was created by John M. Gottman and Nan Silver in their book “Happy Couples Have Their Secrets.” This test will allow you to know if you are a couple in love or not.
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Print the table and check the boxes. ( Is love Do I still like it? )
|Sharing daily activities (spreading laundry, watching TV) together, I like.|
|The idea of spending my free time with him delights me.|
|My companion likes to have my opinion and debate with me.|
|We like to discuss everything and nothing together.|
|He is my best friend and lover.|
|I’m happy to see him again at the end of the day.|
|He considers me his best friend.|
|When you both spend time, it passes faster.|
|I love our conversations.|
|We always have things to tell each other.|
|We laugh a lot together.|
|We have almost the same deep values, the same vision of life.|
|We enjoy the same activities when we work time together.|
|We have many common interests.|
|We share the same dreams or at least the same projects.|
|Even though he doesn’t have the same interests as I do, I appreciate his interests too.|
|We often like the same things.|
|When my companion had a bad day, he told me about it.|
|We always have fun when we are together.|
Count 1 point per “true” box checked.
Do you have more than 10 points? Your couple is solid!
Bravo, in this area, your couple shows great solidity. You seem to be very present for one another on a daily basis. It is these small moments that we rarely think about (doing laundry, shopping, making a small phone call during the day …) that form the very heart of couple life. ( Is love Do I still like it )
Less than 10 points? Your couple could do better!
By learning to turn to one another more often in everyday life, your relationship will become not only more stable but also more romantic. Every time you make the effort to listen to what your friend is telling you and react to it or give him advice, your couple will be all the better.
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