He doesn’t like me anymore
If you have just clicked on this article or made this request on the internet, it is because you must have already noticed changes in your relationship. Changes that, far from being beneficial to you, hurt you and make you doubt the sustainability of your relationship. “He doesn’t love me anymore” is what you say to yourself. If you find yourself in these four signs, it is indeed possible that there are eels under rock.
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So here are some signs that should put the chip in your ear:
1/ Behaviour change ( He doesn’t like me anymore )
While your darling was attentive with you, always a sweet word to soothe you, a caress on the cheek to prove his affection, today it is no longer so. Better yet, the more you ask him for attention or tenderness, the more he closes, explaining to you by A+B that the more you are waiting for him to act according to your good will, the more he wants to flee you.
So you don’t know how to act anymore. You look at him, always so in love, want to snuggle up against him, to laugh with him as before but his reluctance acts on you like an iron curtain separating you. ( He doesn’t like me anymore )
The change in your companion’s behavior can be different: while he returned every night at a certain time, it would now seem that he is overwhelmed with meetings. He returns every night a little later, goes more and more often to play Poker with his friends, asking himself no questions about your feelings.
You are simply dealing with a coward: a man who flees you instead of telling you straight in the eyes that he is fed up with you, that you are shit and that he needs air. Jean-Pierre is – it seems – a soft ball. And, when you try a communicative approach, it’s the end of the world, he takes refuge in front of his best friend, the TV or his best friend, his computer.
2/ It no longer looks at you ( He doesn’t like me anymore )
Before you were his princess, the most beautiful woman in the world, he devoured your eyes in the morning when you were not yet ready. Today, you can put on his favorite dress, you make up as best you can, he cares! It’s not that he doesn’t find you prettier anymore, it’s that he’s gotten used to you. You are no longer a surprise to him.
Your body, he knows it by heart, just like your smell, your eyes when you wake up, your eyes in the evening, your mole at the bottom left of your kidney… Nothing has any more secrets for him. Which is quite normal when a relationship has been going on for some time. What is less so is the total absence of compliments.
You do not have to be born of the last rain to know that every human being, men and women alike, needs compliments, needs to feel important and exceptional in the eyes of the one he loves.
3/ He no longer desires you ( He doesn’t like me anymore )
There is often a tendency to think that women are more likely than men to fall back on intimate relationships. FALSE. Men also know very well how to recallable. And when there is no more desire they do not force themselves and frankly admit “want to sleep”, “be tired” “be stressed” “it’s me who does everything, it’s tiring”.
In short, your Apollo, once indefatigable has almost become difficult to convince for a game of legs in the air. You are tired of always having to take the first step. He doesn’t like me anymore
4/ You annoy it for a nothing
Whatever you do, it annoys him. Whether it is your way of thinking, your gestures, your behaviors, everything is a pretext for annoyance. What had seduced him in your home became the most unbearable thing in his eyes. For example, you like to take care of yourself. At first, he liked it. Today it taxes you as an egocentricosatanic narcissistic.
If it cannot be said that your friend no longer loves you despite his signs, what is certain is that there is a real weariness: it is up to you to discuss it together, if Sir does not once again flee the dialogue. Cheer up!