How to get a man to engage in the couple?

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How to get a man to engage

Very often we need to be reassured about the feelings of our darling. You want commitment, concrete and your darling is a little slow to give you all that. For him to really commit here are four tips to follow.

Don’t force anything

You are two in this relationship and you do not necessarily have the same past, the same desires or the same rhythm. It is therefore important not to force anything and to be patient (easier said than done, I grant you). You may think that because you are ready, your darling is necessarily ready too.

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This is not always the reality, it would be too simple. Maybe for him, it may be going too fast, that he wants to keep a little independence to be able to invite his friends whenever he wants, without having to account.

So you have to wait for the commitment to come from him, if you push him, he may take his legs to his neck and this is not the goal. Avoid talking about your plans (marriage, moving in, children) all the time. The more you talk to him about it, the less he will want to take the plunge. Wait a bit, you are only at the beginning of the relationship 

Give him his freedom (How to get a man to engage)

For him to want to engage more in your relationship, he must feel good, free to do what he wants, without forcing him or having a jealousy attack as soon as he goes out with his friends. Your darling will seek to stay with you and engage in your relationship if you manage to create a comfortable climate. 

Even if you are together, nothing prevents you from being independent, this is one of the reasons why he will stay in a relationship with you. Trust him, he will make you feel good, it is the only way to find a balance and be happy in your relationship.

Communicate a lot (How to get a man to engage)

To know where he stands in your relationship, it is important to communicate, obviously you should not constantly tell him that you want to move in with him or that you want children but discuss it implicitly. More to know if you have the same visions of life as you make real concrete projects. This will reassure you and not freak him out, you just have to be careful to use the right words.

Enjoy your couple as they are

As we have seen previously forcing it, will not arrange your affairs, so the patient is the watchword. Enjoy the present moments, enjoy your beginning of relationship serenely without making plans on the comet. Let him know that you love your couple, him, everything he does for you.