In love does habit mean routine?
My dear ones,
One of the concerns of a couple, even the central concern, which can too quickly turn into fear, is not to fall into the routine. Continue to seduce oneself, surprise oneself, impress the other and impress oneself.
This is the purpose in itself of all romantic relationships.
The problem is that it becomes an obsession, a fear, which actually turns out to be legitimate because routine can kill a couple. (In love does habit mean routine)
By dint of running out of steam, the passion eventually fades completely, and it is important to succeed or at least give oneself the means to rekindle the flame. You have so many beautiful things to live together. Don’t behave like strangers. Know that if you have vibrated for one another, it is important to find this complicity that united you before. You discovered things together, rediscover them.
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Allow yourself to understand that you are not attached to your couple but to your man: by this, you can then focus on what you want to relive with him, for him, for you.
Go back to the sources of your love, if I may put it this way: without denying the evolution of your couple, allow love to break through again by what charmed you at the beginning: humor, tenderness, everything that is specific to the other and that pleases you. All this did not disappear, but simply went out as it went along.
It is very important not to be imprisoned by the feeling of routine, not the routine itself. (In love does habit mean routine)
It also means not being so tetanus to this routine to the point of provoking it, in order to comfort yourself somewhere in your fear. In addition, if your anxiety of boredom is too strong, your man will feel it, and weariness will gradually take precedence over your couple. The best solution is to keep all these clouds of boredom away from your couple, rather than apprehending them.
To do this, try to perceive and tame the moments of happiness that are offered despite your couple, to let them come, to appreciate them together, and to learn afterwards to cause these small successes, and to make them habits, pleasant, and which belong only to your couple. Try by these habits to make your couple unique so sublime, and original.
Indeed, do not confuse habits and routine. (In love does habit mean routine)
Keep in mind that it is perfectly normal that after a while, the expectations you have about your couple are not the same, but that it does not directly reach the love that binds you to your man. On the other hand, habits can even forge a couple. The important thing is to learn to live them without getting tired of them. A movie on Thursday evening, a walk, a market on the weekend… These are habits that can be taken by a couple without them becoming sad or banal because they are regular.
It’s up to you to give yourself the means to make them more extravagant, a little different. In a couple, being aware of the love that the other has for you is essential. These same habits can allow you to establish a solid foundation, which will forge the union of your man and you. In addition, let’s talk about ease, e are small things that it is relatively simple to cling to when you feel that your feelings are gradually flying away. Because these habits constitute your love and give a concrete form to your couple. (In love does habit mean routine)
On the other hand, rekindle the flame can be translated in different ways: obviously, small attentions that you may have forgotten for a while, thinking that it was too blue flower, and your couple, quite solid, no longer needed this. And you were right: doing too much could have had a negative effect in the end. Everyone could have got tired in the same way, by these attentions.
But a little word before leaving for work, a text message, a dinner prepared with love (it is obviously valid for you gentlemen, if you come across this article!), it is always very pleasant, especially when these attentions have been forgotten or neglected for a while. This allows you to find a new, more passionate love, to renew what illuminates your couple. Every couple, every human being even needs to feel again emotions or feelings that may have been lost until then. So be aware of the strength of your love and feelings, but never take a couple for granted.