Mistakes to avoid at the beginning of a couple relationship
Are you in a relationship and happy to be? congratulation! However, you must be aware that being in a relationship requires a daily job, almost every moment! Especially if you want the relationship to last. Here is a small inventory of mistakes to avoid at the beginning of a couple’s relationship, so that everything goes as well as possible and you can live with love and fresh water:
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1/ Do not harass the other
Being in a couple does not mean that you must be available for the other 7/7, 24/24! And you may get tired, or tire your darling, if you constantly send him SMS, Snaps etc . Yes it is important to give proof of love as a couple, but it is just as important not to overstalk. At the risk of seeing the effect of the latter diminish.
2/ Don’t say EVERYTHING about yourself (Mistakes to avoid at the beginning of a couple relationship)
Keep a little mystery that heck! It can be tempting, when you think you have found your half, to reveal yourself entirely, to entrust everything. However, it is important on the one hand that you keep a small secret garden, and on the other hand, that you leave it to your partner to discover you over time! Everyone has more hidden, more secret facets of their personality. The joy of discovery and the thrill of surprise are two elements that help to alleviate a couple’s daily routine. So why deprive yourself of it?
3/ Do not try to see it every day
This is a pitfall that many people unfortunately fall into, especially at the beginning of a relationship. Inevitably, you are in the middle of a phase of fusional love, and you want to spend most of your time in contact with the other… And we don’t blame you, it’s great! However, be careful not to invade the personal space of the other, and leave a little privacy to both of you. Especially if one or the other comes out of a long period of celibacy, and quite naturally, you have to reclaim certain habits! (Mistakes to avoid at the beginning of a couple relationship)
4/ Don’t talk about your ex
When you indulge in your half, you tend to get carried away and say everything, maybe sometimes a little too much… The subject of ex, if it is not taboo, is still to be avoided. Yes, no one is fooled, most of us have already had several ex. But that doesn’t mean you have to go into the details of these relationships with your other half, who would do well to know that you have experienced this or that person with this or that person… You would risk hurting him/her, or making him/her feel insecure, or creating an evil spirit of competition, by comparing them, unintentionally or not.
5/ Do not put pressure (Mistakes to avoid at the beginning of a couple relationship)
You know, kind of talk about certain topics… Like starting to ask him/her if he/she wants children, getting married, when, how, where etc… This is the best way to make the other person panic, and to make him/her flee! Go slowly at the beginning of the relationship, do not start to burn 50 steps when you have only been together for a few days / weeks!
6/ Do not idealize it
Ahh love. Often in its early days, love is more of a passion than anything else! This clearly blinds to the other! So try to keep your feet on the ground! And this, despite the feeling of love that comes to blur the tracks. Yes, the other seems perfect to you, having all the qualities of the world, but this is false. And the more you idealize your partner, the more likely you are to fall from above. So know how to take a step back, and tell yourself that you are both imperfect, but that together you can try to become one.
7/ Not playing a role (Mistakes to avoid at the beginning of a couple relationship)
Some people put on a mask at the beginning of the relationship to hide their weaknesses, their defects, and seem ideal in the eyes of their half. But chase the natural it comes back to the gallop . So be careful not to lie to yourself, and therefore to the other, because he/she will inevitably end up seeing it for himself/herself, and will necessarily be disappointed, and you may not appreciate the backlash! So do not be afraid to assume your imperfections, your defects.
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