One in three men marries a woman they don’t like
Men would be more willing than women to marry someone they don’t like! We will try to understand the why of the how in order to enlighten our lanterns on male behavior.
An American study shows that men are less difficult than women to marry since one in three men marries a woman they do not like. It would seem that passion is not a determining factor in marriage. Marrying a woman with whom they feel good is enough, no need to wait for great love.
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What does a man look for in a woman?
WARNING: this article makes generalities based on statistics. Obviously, not all men and women are like this.
THE POSITIVES (One in three men marries a woman they don’t like)
1.Comfort
A man will prefer calm and peaceful comfort instead of steamy and tumultuous love passion. The fact of having a partner who does not pose a problem to them and who accepts them as they are without reproaching them, would be a determining factor to be in a couple. We are far from the stereotype of torrid and passionate love because calm would take precedence over passion.
2. Kindness
Men need a woman who is kind and attentive. Above all, they hate head-taking. They will always prefer to live a long quiet river by favoring boredom over arguments. A kind woman who will take care of her man: that’s it. However, women will quickly feel stifled in this kind of situation. Wanting to live, discover and feel their heart beat the chamade, they will go from the nice girl to the boring woman. The man will not understand this about-face and will think that his sweet is no longer happy at his side.
3 Presence (One in three men marries a woman they don’t like)
A man needs a woman who is present for him. As a child needs his mother to console him, the man needs his wife to encourage him. A woman present for her man is an immeasurable support for his evolution. Is it not said that behind every man is a woman?
NEGATIVE POINTS
It may also be that a man marries because economic worries make the marriage easier to bear financially. We get married because it is a good compromise between the expectations and needs of two parties. It may also be that the habit doing, we no longer seek to find the great love. You stay with a person because you’ve known each other for a long time. Passing the milestone of marriage is like entering into a certain stability and comforting security.
Unfortunately, there are many such situations in which spite takes the place over love.
Do not feel obliged to fit into a mold because you risk losing your particularity.
Are men less difficult than women? (One in three men marries a woman they don’t like)
A British study has shown that 77% of women do not believe in the man of their dream. Aware that Prince Charming does not exist and that no one can fully meet selection criteria.
The book “Men Come from March and Women from Venus” shows us the differences between men and women. One has to wonder if we are made to live together?
One in three men marries a woman he does not like, this statistic still seems unlikely and yet…! But it does not prevent that the criteria of trust, well-being and understanding must always be present in a couple. Could love turn into friendship? Anyway, you don’t marry someone if you don’t feel anything! We get married because we are good, calm and serene with the other person who brings us a real well-being.
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