Sex Ways and Positions
You have to try, yes!
Having sex is an activity that should be fun. However, not all women feel confident in themselves when they have sex with their partner. Taste insecure or lacking in confidence could make you feel not enjoy the things that were happening.
Actually, this self-confidence can be increased, namely by exploring yourself so that you can know how to cover up your shortcomings and highlight your strengths. But you don’t need to worry, you can do some of these sex positions to increase your confidence with your partner when making love.
1. Solo Shadow Shower
Goody Howard, a sex educator based in Texas, says the best way to reduce insecure feelings during sex is to feel comfortable with your own body non-sexually first.
Before you get into a position during sex, you can build self-confidence in several ways, one of which is by bathing in dark or dim lighting. Paying attention to the way your body is vibrating or the various curves of your body will make you discover your beauty.
2. R-Rated Reflection or masturbating in front of a mirror
The next step is to know your body as a whole, you can see the beauty of your body, the curves, and the softness of your skin.
You can masturbate in front of the mirror that you have. Take a full look at yourself and touch which part of your body will make you comfortable. Both on sensitive points, knowing the parts of Miss V as a whole, and the way you present yourself to look sexy.
To be even more excited, feel free to have solo sex with a lubricant. Touch, touch, and identify your sensitive parts. This will make you feel confident about your body.
3. Masturbate with your partner
Now, if you are comfortable touching yourself but not comfortable enough with touching your partner, the right way is to masturbate together. You can come close to each other and touch your sensitive parts or masturbate together. With or without clothes, you can adjust it to your comfort.
This will make fun together, before continuing to have sex. Seeing your partner reach orgasm and vice versa, will certainly make you no longer insecure.
4. Dry humping or having sex while wearing clothes
Dry humping is a way to have sex in clothes without losing your intimacy, even as hot as naked sex. For those of you who are struggling with confidence during sex, this method is considered effective for you.
By sticking to your clothes, you are automatically eliminating the elements that can create that feeling of insecurity. Even though this is not a penetrative sex position, the fact is that the resulting orgasm will still occur without penetration.
You can choose clothes that are comfortable and prone to friction, wear clothes made from silk or satin.
5. Rider On Top
If you are struggling to increase your self-confidence, the rider on top sex position seems like a bad idea to you. However, a combination of rider on top sex positions will be able to help you by wearing a blindfold to your partner.
The addition of this blindfold is also beneficial for you, as you can act with complete control over the rhythm, depth and speed of sex without insecure that your partner is paying attention to your body.
In addition, you can turn on the lights when making love, so you know what response your partner gives when you exercise complete control.
6. Chair Rider
When you have gained a little bit of confidence through the rider on top position , the next step is to continue with the chair rider position . This face-to-face position will allow you to make eye contact with your partner by being on your partner’s lap.
When you’re comfortable, maintaining eye contact that occurs will make you sexier. If your partner’s eyes are fixed on yours, it means that he or she is not looking at a part of your body that makes you insecure.
You can spice up this position with many variations, such as using a vibrator, exploring other parts of the body, and wearing sexy lingerie .
7. Doggy Style
Doggy style is also a position that can increase your confidence. With this position he will gain penetration access to you without looking at your whole body part.
Once you feel comfortable enough, consider placing a mirror in front of you. The mirror will help you see yourself from the sex that is going on. This of course will boost your self-confidence.
This spooning or spoon position will make you more comfortable and feel intimate, because you and your partner can exercise control. You and your partner don’t need to face each other, of course this position makes you no longer insecure , Bela.
During penetration, your hands and your partner can explore each other, or just hug you from behind. In fact, skin to skin that happens will make you connect with your partner.
Those are some ways you can do to reduce insecure during sex . Trust me, partners love you for who you are, Bella. So you don’t need to feel insecure anymore, huh!
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