strange things that happen when you have found THE right person
Finding love, already, it is not easy. And, once we have found it, we always wonder if it is really the right one. When we are in a relationship with someone who really suits us, certain things happen. So here are 6 strange things that happen when you have found THE right person
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6 strange things that happen when you have found THE right person
First of all, remember: There is not only one person who can make you happy! Sorry to destroy the myth, but no, we don’t have ONE soulmate. With more than 7 billion inhabitants on earth, you might as well say that it would be a bit of a panic if we had only one person who really suited us.
1/ You argue
Yes yes, you read that right! It is very healthy to argue within a couple. The reverse is not a good sign at all!
If you argue, it means that you are both able to say what you think. That is, to be yourself.
It also means that you are able to tell yourself what is wrong within the relationship, and to talk about it. Even if it’s screaming or crying and it’s frankly not pleasant on the spot… A good argument puts a lot of things back in place!
strange things that happen when you have found THE right person
2/ You feel emotionally stable
If before, with your ex, you tended to ask yourself existential questions of the style: is it really the right one? I don’t like it too much when he does that, is that normal? Oh and then what am I going to do with my life? I don’t really feel fulfilled in my relationship.
Today, you feel serene, everything happens naturally and for the best. There is no drama, no hours spent hoping for a message, no emotional lift, no cancelled appointments!
Both of you, it’s like a no-brainer.
3/ You are stronger together to overcome obstacles
With your ex, you didn’t even want to tell them about your problems because you knew they didn’t have much to do with it.
When things didn’t go well, you would talk to your friends, or you would take refuge alone under your duvet or in front of a good series or video game.
Now that you’ve found the right person, you feel stronger than anyone else. Able to climb mountains, weather storms, nothing scares you since you are at his side. Because you know that both of you will always be there to protect and support yourself.
4/ Your heart beats when you see it
Obviously, this is a sign that fades over time. But when you fall in love, no less than 12 areas of the brain work together to produce hormones like dopamine, oxytocin, adrenaline or vasopressin that make you euphoric
So, when you have found THE right person, your heart will tell you because it will start to beat very hard, without you having asked for anything.
strange things that happen when you have found THE right person
5/ You like to be alone with yourself
And yes, maybe it may also seem strange to you but when you have found the right person, you don’t feel obliged to be permanently glued to her!
When you are well with someone, you want to be with him often, normal. But we also like to be alone, to enjoy ourselves. We know perfectly well that the person will not forget us, we do not make “bile”.
And then we leave to miss each other and find each other better!
6/ You wonder every day how the day went
If you have found the right person it means that you both feel very invested in the relationship.
And, if you’re invested, it means your partner’s day matters to you. Every day, when he or she comes home, you ask him or her for news of his or her day and he or she does the same with you.
It may seem strange and above all insignificant, yet it is a real proof of love to worry about the days your partner has spent!
