We all, at one time or another, knew a friend who jumped from relationship to relationship. I am thinking in particular of a former friend whom I will call D. She fell in love all the time, a real artichoke heart! Every time she told me her new love story she would tell me: “No, but now it’s really different, it’s really crazy love”. And this, until the next time. Was it love, attachment? And besides, what are the differences between love and attachment?
Differences between love and attachment: Fear of loneliness?
What if the difference between love and attachment was the fear of loneliness? What if many of us confused love with attachment? Perhaps we could even say that everyone can love in their own way. Even if it is said that true love induces the fact of not expecting anything from the other, of not seeking to fill any lack whatsoever… Many, however, work in this way.
A lot of people, much more than you can imagine, are ready to get in a relationship with the first person to come as long as he or she allows them to no longer be alone. These people then think hard as iron that they have found the love of their life but quickly become disillusioned. Because if they didn’t lie to themselves, they would know that they didn’t get into a relationship for the right reasons.
What are the real differences between love and attachment?
Only the person concerned can say whether or not he or she is truly in love. But sometimes, if not often, our hearts do not send us the right signals. It can sneakily make us believe that we have fallen madly in love while we are just filling a void. A big void. And it feels so good that it is finally fulfilled that we have the feeling of feeling love. But no!
Love is close to hate. Attachment is less strong
“That love was nice but that still he tells
it Then he told me that he wanted to leave, he had appointments by the hundreds
That tonight he d’vait dine at his half sister’s house: hatred” love and attachment
Love and hate are very close, I do not tell you today. When you love a very strong person and you suffer a breakup, you often go from sadness to deep hatred. And that’s perfectly normal! A strong and powerful love, when it stops, generates another strong and powerful feeling but which is him, negative.
love and attachment:
Whereas when you are simply attached to a person, you will not know this feeling of hatred towards them. Or it will be very short-lived. If this feeling of hatred takes place, it is rather that your ego has taken a hit. The difference between love and attachment is that when you are attached to someone, you will instead feel emotions such as anxiety or irritation. Much less negative emotions. Simply because your feelings towards the other are not as strong as love.
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