tips to put life back in the couple
Because routine often invades the life of a couple, Jess from the site jessetvous.fr gives you the keys to put life back into your daily love life!
1/ WE MOVE
Between work, cleaning, taxes, shopping, “love is in the meadow” and the girlfriend Martine who calls every night: we lost sight of each other!
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Remember that before you both lived at an intensity worthy of “basic instinct”? You were in a total and perfect H24 fusion. And then one thing led to another, you got lost and now the only declarations are those of taxes
Our life becomes a procession of multiple and diverse obligations. Everyday life means that in the end we are together all the time but that we become strangers to the other. We no longer find time to enjoy our couple. (tips to put life back in the couple)
So you will take the bull by the horns and take care of your union! You will concoct a small trip in love. No need to go to Ouagadougou to find your Jules and rekindle the flame that knew more where to light up.
You will be able to release the pressure and talk about yourself to change this daily life that has become too oppressive. Taking the time to rediscover the other through a caress, a look or a word is worth all the gold in the world.
So we take the cash register, the train or the vélib and move from home to see other scenery, other people and find the world much more beautiful than between our 4 walls.
So put something new in old and experience new things:
- A walk in the forest
- Go to the sea for a day
- Do a dance class together
Renew your complicity by discovering unknown territories.
2/ WE SAY NO (tips to put life back in the couple_
Friends are good. The outings are great. Family is magical! But at some point you have to be able to say: NO. If you want to go out too much, you lose sight of yourself and you become like two strangers sleeping in the same bed.
No one will blame you if from time to time you decline an invitation. Stop living in eternal obligations! Favor the cocooning of the couple and be at the disposal of the one who makes your heart beat.
What if on Sunday you stayed under the duvet watching movies and eating your favorite dishes? For the rest I trust your imagination.
3/ WE RENEW OURSELVES IN BED
We are not going to hide and lie to each other: the desire has melted like snow in the sun…. By dint of abandoning seduction, privileged moments and small love attentions we simply do not want to anymore. It is very important to talk about it with your lover so that you can dig up this topic that has been buried for far too long and explore it again. By talking about it you will de-dramatize a subject to make it a fun. (tips to put life back in the couple)
- Learn to seduce again
- Schedule appointments
- Write yourself words of love
- Make statements straight in your eyes
4/ RE-ENERGIZE YOURSELF!
Try new things, go shopping in intimate stores, change positions ,places and time slots. Sexuality has the advantage of being a limitless subject that can be explored again and again without ever reaching the end.
Do not hesitate to communicate your desires and fantasies to Jules and take the first step so that he is surprised and wants to do even more.
5/ WE HAVE SURPRISES (tips to put life back in the couple)
Before, when you passed a store you thought of him, in front of a perfumery you imagined his smell, in front of crossroads you thought only of his favorite dishes: now it’s nothingness!
It is true that there is not much left to discover by force but why target on the unknown? Plan an unexpected restaurant, a play at the last moment or a cinema while you were waiting for a TV night.
Surprises are inexhaustible, especially in Paname! These testimonials of love will give a new impetus to your relationship.
And then take time for yourself too: your man will love your little fishing when you get out of a treatment. He will find you pretty in your new dress and will be delighted to date you sporting the latest fashionable hairstyle. And you will feel invigorated: young, beautiful, sexy, attractive and you will breathe zenitude … like what it takes little to be happy
Do yourself good! Exit the habits!
6/ WE TALK (tips to put life back in the couple)
A couple who is going badly is a couple who has a concern for communication. It is essential or vital to establish habits that will force you to talk: a restaurant once a month for example. You will take the opportunity to approach the small as well as the big worries of everyday life that can not be said for lack of time. You will take the opportunity to talk about your desires and expectations and will be more attentive to his.
Dialogue is 80% of a couple that works.
7/ WE DO NOT FORGET TENDERNESS
We may not have time. It is possible not always to be at the top of communication. BUT if you want to keep the thread that connects you it is essential to keep the tenderness. What is tenderness? It’s the kiss on the mouth before leaving, it’s the caress in the hair when you watch a movie, it’s looking at the other tenderly when he speaks or sleeps …. This is what will maintain the seduction and brighten up the everyday. *(tips to put life back in the couple)
So be tender, be loving and value the other because he is your lover and it is beautiful. A man needs to feel supported and valued, just like a woman!
Being in a relationship is like following a diet you have to put habits that at first are difficult but then become a lifestyle that will change you, reinvigorate you and give you a new impetus.
Love and care for your couple, he will give it back to you a hundredfold!