worst ways to break up
It is NEVER easy to break. Unless you don’t care about the person you’re with in which case, you’re frankly not a beautiful person! But I dare to believe that those who read parlerdamour.fr are good and well-meaning people who have never used one of these 7 worst ways to break up.
Whether you’ve been in a relationship for a month, a year or fifteen years, there are some ways to break up that are simply despicable! And I’m going to list them.
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The 7 worst ways to break
I’m not even going to bother to prioritize them because they are all seven completely awful! I beg you, respect the person you have been with even if your relationship has not gone as you had hoped. This person has been a part of your life and even if today you no longer love him, you have to do things right.
1/ Break by SMS (worst ways to break up)
Breakups by SMS, it happens when you are 15 years old (and still). Today, you must behave like an adult and accept the consequences of your actions.
You can’t stop a two- or ten-year relationship by sending a simple “I’m leaving you”text message. The person who is being left needs explanations to grieve. You owe him at least that.
You have nothing to do with it if you don’t like it anymore but don’t play the coward! After what you shared together a breaking letter followed by a face-to-face explanation is for me a minimum!
2/ Ghosting (worst ways to break up)
But what is ghosting? Well, it’s just a matter of breaking up without any explanation. Yes, yes you heard right. The person takes his clicks and clacs and leaves without leaving a single word. Perhaps the worst way to break!
The followers of this practice will defend themselves by saying that it is a practical way not to hurt the other! My eye!
This is the worst practice because the other will not only be terribly hurt but also, in the long term! Because, if you know the 4 stages of mourning in love, you know that it is essential for the person who is being left to know the reasons. Otherwise, she will always keep the hope that the other will come back… One day.
3/ Break in public
Really? If you have already done something like this I send you all my contempt! More seriously, breaking up in public is downright humiliating. Already that a break is very difficult to cash in, breaking in this way will add to the sadness shame and embarrassment!
although… At least, if you break up in this way, I think the person in question will quickly recover by saying to himself: what (the) filthy moron (e) fortunately that I am no longer with!
Even worse? Say no at your wedding! Well yes, what a good idea! Wait until everything is ready and to be in church to extinguish forever the smile that shone on the face of your (former) love.
4/ Break through a third person (worst ways to break up)
You really don’t have to have much courage to make such a zero break! “Sorry, I don’t have so much co***** that I go through my friend to tell you that I don’t love you anymore. And worse sorry you deserve better than me what. »
You pass for the idiot of service and for the greatest coward that exists in this world! quiet.
5/ Break by pushing the other to break
This technique is all too often used I think! It is a kind of manipulation that pushes the one who did not want to break, to break.
or example, you argue for the umpteenth time and one says, “I’m fed up with the argument that we’re arguing all the time.”
And the other to answer “Well leave me”. Skilful Ball!
This can be done in an even more insidious way. The partner who wants to break up will begin to be distant, sometimes unpleasant or even undrinkable … Until the other takes the lead and leaves him.
6/ Break up via Facebook (worst ways to break up)
I write it but I don’t believe it for a second. I do not think it is possible to do so, but who knows?
Leaving the other without telling him, just by changing his Facebook status from “As a couple” to “Separated”. Ahah it makes me laugh so much it would be ridiculous. But I hope deep down that it never happened to anyone!
7/ On the plane for a trip abroad
You paid for two weeks of vacation abroad and you absolutely want to go because it cost you dearly. But you no longer like the person you’re going to go with.
So, rather than waiting for the return (to see if the problems subside during the holidays) you swing the good news at him on the plane. Listen, I prefer that we separate after this holiday. (worst ways to break up)
The worst thing is that I know a friend who happened to! I let you imagine the two horrible weeks he spent in a destination yet paradise
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