The break: good or bad idea?
The break, the bre-ak, call it what you will. We are faced with the fact: your couple is doing badly. It’s going badly but you want to save it and start considering all the solutions to find your fairy tale of yesteryear. An idea may begin to germinate in your head, that of not seeing your dear half for a while, just to come back rested and more in love than ever. But is it that simple? How effective is the break, which is often criticized?
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Taking a break, a bad thing?
« A break is when a couple breaks up but does not admit it to themselves – what will 3/4 of your friends think. But is this true? Not always.
Taking a break, a bad thing?
« A break is when a couple breaks up but does not admit it to themselves – what will 3/4 of your friends think. But is this true? Not always.
The break can offer the space of freedom to those who needed it, until they realize that the couple is not a prison and that the life of two is finally more pleasant.
When the couple is in the impasse, between a hesitant breakup and a clear bre-ak, I could only recommend the break.
Don’t lie
So that the break does not end in disguise and one of the two suffers, it is strongly recommended to find him an end date. A break cannot be of endless duration.
It is also important not to consider yourself as totally single during this period. We remain faithful (unless otherwise well mentioned agreement with your spouse). In case this idea seems unbearable to you, it is that your couple is strongly questioned and your feelings are no longer strong enough to hold the road. The break may not be enough to keep your union alive.
Finally, there are no real rules to live well your break. It is up to you to fix them, taking your needs and desires into account. However, if you come to meet another person during this time, be very frank with your partner:he has the right to know. Be careful also not to fall in love with the first come under the sole pretext that it represents change… You will return a few days later to your spouse, who will surely not accept your attitude.
If it is your spouse who meets someone, know that, despite the hard blow that it brings, it is not necessarily a bad thing since the situation is now flat: it is better that you choose directly the break-up rather than let this difficult situation drag on and end up cuckolded.
In conclusion, the break is not a miracle solution to save your couple. What cannot be glued together will not be. The break can also sometimes even be painful, let’s not decement ourselves. However, it allows you to do a real work on yourself, take a step back and better understand your breakup or… Her reunion with her husband! As for the sequel, no one can predict it, Who will live will see!
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