When should I leave?
Another period of doubts, more questions that trot in your head. Yet separating has become commonplace: at the slightest mistake, at the slightest conflict, we send ourselves into cabbages. But how do you know it’s really time to leave? Do we ask ourselves the right questions before leaving his man?
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It is often during an argument that we say things that we do not think, the anger that takes over. But it’s hard to go back… So beware of insults, words higher than others that you might regret a few minutes later!
Difficult passage or end of story? ( When should I leave )
Did I really try to save my couple or did I let time destroy this thing called love? Continue to pretend, to lie to his partner but especially to oneself. Why stay when there is nothing left to learn from this relationship? Why stay when you don’t see a future with this person? Why stay when you are able to wake up without seeing your face? Why stay when you are able to say no words about the day and evening?
Ask yourself the following questions:
– Do I project myself into the future with him?
– Do I miss him when he leaves for several days?
– Does it make me happy? ( When should I leave )
– Do I like to spend time with him?
– Would I rather be with him than with my friends?
– Are our arguments less present than the moments of happiness?
– Let’s communicate on a regular basis.
If you answer “no” to at least 4 questions, it’s high time to do something! Decision-making is the hardest step to do but your future depends on it.
The last word: the most difficult step ( When should I leave )
It’s never easy separation, it’s not easy for anyone, but be prepared: psychologically! This is not a decision to be taken lightly, make the right choice, think about yourself first. In this world you sometimes have to know how to be selfish. If you are not happy, remember that this is only a passage… Believe me this is just one step. We are made of stainless steel!