Why stay in a relationship?
What if I want perfection?
Some time ago, I was asked why was I staying with my boyfriend of the moment when I could “find better”.
It is normal, suitable and even advisable to point out to your dear friend who mourns her lost love that she deserves better, can find better, especially if sir has deceived her, plated by text message, plated by text message the day before their wedding to go join his mistress, or other rejoicing of the kind.
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Because your friend’s broken ego in the face of the temporary humiliation that her ex-partner will have inflicted on her needs to be restored.
But me, if I am in a relationship with someone with whom I am good, how would I need to find better? ( Why stay in a relationship )
What is better, exactly? We are all looking for different things in each other and still, we can not choose our dear “soul mate” on catalog. The defects of the other that we did not think we would accept but that we finally like, isn’t that a good surprise?
We must not be with someone just for their ego, we must love the person for what they are, and not just because they make us love ourselves. If Ryan Gosling suddenly wants to marry me (I wouldn’t say no), I think before I love Ryan, I’ll love myself, having been cool enough to crack a big female fantasy.
Why stay in a relationship
And meanwhile, this poor Ryan who must be something other than a beautiful mouth and good artist will feel very lonely.
Be careful, I do not want to say that you have to sacrifice your ego for the other, on the contrary! Never, ever, accept to be with someone who constantly belittles you, love or not, no one has to act in this way. You just have to learn to love yourself to be able to love someone properly.
« But many gain confidence in themselves thanks to their couple “, you would say. This is by no means wrong, and I understand that idea. In this case, I think that a girl who lacks a lot of confidence in herself will be better with a boy who lacks confidence in him, both can help each other through the love of the other! ( Why stay in a relationship )
Of course, self-confidence is already a very complicated subject so self-confidence mixed with romantic relationships, just imagine the complexity of the trick!