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Questions to ask as a couple

Often, after a few years, or even a few months, you feel like you know your darling by heart! But what is certain is that you will always have something new to learn about him! And vice versa for him… We already have not enough of a lifetime to know each other, so know our darling … Here are today for you 7 questions to ask as a couple! Most of these seemingly innocuous questions will allow you to discover character traits and behaviors hitherto unsuspected!!

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1/ Question to ask as a couple: What is his version of the story of your meeting? (Questions to ask as a couple)


Everyone experiences things differently! Even if you experienced the same thing at the same time in the same place, his perception of things can frankly be far from yours! So ask them to describe your meeting from their point of view. His sensations, his feelings, his opinion etc… Perhaps you will rediscover your meeting in a whole new aspect!

2/ What is his conception of a perfect day? (Questions to ask as a couple)

Ask your darling how his ideal day would go! You might be surprised! The answers can be varied… Whether he wants to spend the day in a sofa facing a series, or in the mountains hiking, a thousand leagues from any inhabitant, or at the beach under a beautiful sun … You could learn a lot! In addition, if his perfect day remains possible to do, surprise him a few weeks later by organizing it for him! He will be delighted!


3/ What is the thing he is most proud of?

Most people do not spontaneously put themselves forward. Force your darling to do it! To boost his ego and see how different his conception of pride can be from yours. It can be a sporting achievement achieved recently or not, or simply the fact of having one day helped an elderly person to cross, or of having been part of an association helping the homeless etc… This is a chance to learn more about him and his strong and/or courageous and/or generous side.

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4/ Question to ask as a couple: Would he like to know what the future will be made of? (Questions to ask as a couple)

Or would he prefer to ignore what might happen there? And if he would like to know, what would he like to know about the future? An ideal question to learn more about your priorities, desires, dreams and/or apprehensions! Will he be interested in the fate of the world? Of your couple? From his family? Or only to his fate?

5/ What he likes most about you

Your darling surely compliments you regularly, but do you know why he loves you? Dare to ask him what he likes most about you and open your ears wide! Then, in your turn, tell him what attracts you the most to him, history that you did not let him alone give you compliments… He too has the right to know what you value above all about him

6/ What he regrets the most

Or what he feels most guilty about… People often don’t like to talk about this kind of thing, which is why you probably don’t know the answer to this question! Now it’s time for you to know what keeps him awake at night. Obviously, if you feel that it is too heavy a subject for him, badly healed, do not demand an answer at all costs! Some things take longer than others.


7/ Question to ask as a couple: What worries him the most (Questions to ask as a couple)

Ask him! So what is it? His career? The health of his parents? The possible end of your relationship? Its financial situation? You might be surprised to see how your conversation will turn out! Discovering the most secret, intimate fears of the other will allow us to better understand some of their reactions, and to communicate more easily in the future.

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