ways to be happier in your relationship
You live a beautiful healthy relationship with your partner, but you would sometimes like to be happier in your relationship? Know one thing: anyone can find problems if they are looking for them, and no relationship is perfect, because no one is perfect! No, not even you, not even your darling. With this in mind, here are our tips, 7 ways to be happier in your relationship:
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1/ Stop nitpicking
Do you like your partner? If so, then don’t keep focusing on those little things that annoy you with him. After a certain time of relationship, it is not uncommon to see only the defects in the other! And why not focus instead on the things you like about him/her? Instead of off against your spouse because of this or that thing he did not do, thank him instead for the small gestures, attentions and services he rendered!
2/ Be grateful (ways to be happier in your relationship)
The positive brings the positive! Give yourself the right to be happy to have a good relationship: see everything you experience with your darling, and remember only the good things. Do not clutter your mind with black ideas that will gradually gnaw your happiness!
3/ Be respectful, always
Learn to be happier with your partner by treating them the same way you treat your friends: with respect! You are a couple, you form a team! And just treating your lover as your best friend can really make your relationship healthier and more joyful (obviously don’t lose sight of the fact that he/she’s left much more than that!
4/ Declare and restate your love (ways to be happier in your relationship)
We tend, with the months, the years, to no longer say or show what seems obvious to us: the small gestures of affections, the “I love you” become more and more rare… Bring them back in force!!! Open up to your partner, express how much you love him/her, how much he/she makes you happy on a daily basis! No need to break your head for this, be yourself, and do not hesitate to multiply these little attentions that are sure to do a crazy good to your relationship. Make it your mission to re-seduce your darling!
5/ Have fun
Who said that being a couple meant being constantly serious? Become real children again! Make nonsense together! See if you can manage to make the other laugh by telling him jokes, watch together a good comedy movie, make a fight of tickles, a battle of duffel! Stop taking yourself seriously all the time!
6/ Stop always wanting to be right (ways to be happier in your relationship)
If you are one of those people who like to have the last word, change your attitude immediately! We often have a Manichean view of the world, where everything is either true or false. But your darling is different from you! And understanding that he/she can perceive things differently from you is the key to a happy relationship. This does not mean that you should never disagree! In case of conflicts, just say that you respect his point of view on the matter and accept that it may be his truth, even if your opinion differs.
7/ Choose to be happy!
Many people say that happiness is a choice. This does not mean that you will wake up on a happy morning because you have decided to! No! Rather, it’s about making the choice to do the things that will make you happy. We often mistakenly have the desire, the need to control everything in our relationship, at the expense of letting go, and to make the choice of simple happiness. Have the courage to change the things you can change, the serenity to accept the things you can’t change, and the wisdom to distinguish between the two.