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My guy puts his work before me

Your darling puts his work before you and it has the gift of annoying you. He’s a little addicted to work, when he comes home he only talks about work, and you feel like you don’t matter to him anymore. Here are some tips to help you

My guy puts his work before me: what to do?

Talk to him

The basis of a solid relationship in a couple is communication. You are constantly on the edge of your skin and this has an impact on your relationship? The best solution is to talk about it with your darling. Tell him that you are experiencing this situation very badly, that you need to <3.

Compromise

In a couple, you also have to know how to find compromises. Offer to go out with you :). Organize yourself so that you have one evening a week just for you two :). Certainly you accept his job, but only 6 days a week 

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My guy puts his work before me: what to do?

Talk to him

The basis of a solid relationship in a couple is communication. You are constantly on the edge of your skin and this has an impact on your relationship? The best solution is to talk about it with your darling. Tell him that you are experiencing this situation very badly, that you need to <3.

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Compromise

In a couple, you also have to know how to find compromises. Offer to go out with you :). Organize yourself so that you have one evening a week just for you two :). Certainly you accept his job, but only 6 days a week (My guy puts his work before me)

Take an interest in his work 

You love it your darling! Take an interest in his work, showing him that you support him. Your darling probably has a lot of stress at work (just like you). He needs comfort (you too :D). But don’t overdo it either, otherwise he will take you for his secretary… which you will not necessarily like!

Find another source of occupation

Is your guy putting his job before you? So why not find him another source of occupation. Warm him up a little at the office, send him a sext a little naughty. If your darling is a plumber by profession “The small duct is also clogged here, I’m waiting”. “I lost my little panties can you help me find it”. Ladies and gentlemen to play 

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Go see a therapist

This is a solution that remains possible. If the communication does not change anything between you. Sometimes the solution remains someone outside. Offer to do couples therapy together. This will help your darling put distance into his work. But beware this decision must be made by two! (My guy puts his work before me)

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And why not an ultimatum?

Well certainly it’s a little radical as a solution but, make him aware of the value you have. Show him that he must pay more attention to you, but that above all he must devote less time to his work. If it has no impact on him, sometimes the distance makes you aware of the value that a person can have<3

Gentlemen, how would you take it if your darling passed his job with you? (My guy puts his work before me)

You love it your darling! Take an interest in his work, showing him that you support him. Your darling probably has a lot of stress at work (just like you). He needs comfort (you too :D). But don’t overdo it either, otherwise he will take you for his secretary… which you will not necessarily like!

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Find another source of occupation

Is your guy putting his job before you? So why not find him another source of occupation. Warm him up a little at the office, send him a sext a little naughty. If your darling is a plumber by profession “The small duct is also clogged here, I’m waiting”. “I lost my little panties can you help me find it”. Ladies and gentlemen to play (My guy puts his work before me)

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Go see a therapist

This is a solution that remains possible. If the communication does not change anything between you. Sometimes the solution remains someone outside. Offer to do couples therapy together. This will help your darling put distance into his work. But beware this decision must be made by two!

And why not an ultimatum?

Well certainly it’s a little radical as a solution but, make him aware of the value you have. Show him that he must pay more attention to you, but that above all he must devote less time to his work. If it has no impact on him, sometimes the distance makes you aware of the value that a person can have (My guy puts his work before me)

Gentlemen, how would you take it if your darling passed his job with you?

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