Relationship Tips You Should Never Follow
Nowadays, we find many tips on relationships and couple life, whether on the internet, on TV, radio, by friends, family etc … But that does not mean that we should follow them all! So, whatever you read, whatever you hear, whatever you see, step back from the information so that you know whether or not you should really implement these tips. In the meantime to help you, Parler d’Amour has listed 7 relational tips that you should never follow:
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1/ Be 100% honest
Of course, honesty remains in the majority of cases the best solution within a relationship, but being honest should not mean lacking tact and not using any filters.
You don’t necessarily have to share everything that goes through your head, the least of your thoughts. The goal is ultimately to share truths that will help your couple, even if they are difficult to hear, and not truths that could hurt your partner unnecessarily
2/ Problems will resolve themselves over time (Relationship Tips You Should Never Follow)
You must react as soon as an obstacle opposes your well-being and that of your couple. This often involves communicating with your partner and sharing your feelings in order to find a good compromise. Do not hope that by closing your eyes to a problem, that it will disappear on its own as if by magic.
3/ Have no secrets for the other
We regularly hear that the best, longest and strongest relationships are those that leave no room for secrets. We do not share this view at all!
Obviously, a close connection and a deep understanding can lead a couple to say everything to each other, but it is important to keep some things private. On the one hand because it is important for your personal fulfillment that you have your own secret garden, on the other hand, because a part of mystery is always interesting in a relationship. This still leaves you with prospects of discovering many other facets of the other!
4/ Immediately resolve any conflict (Relationship Tips You Should Never Follow)
This is a belief that is often well entrenched in couples, especially younger couples. You have argued, and you have this feeling that, if you do not reconcile within a quarter of an hour, it will be the end of the world, at least the end of your relationship.
But even if you don’t have to drag out arguments for weeks and weeks, it’s important that you give yourself and your partner time and space to breathe, take a step back, and find an appropriate compromise. In addition, it will allow you to calm down, and to find a solution together more easily afterwards.
5/ Your partner must understand you, and will understand you no matter what
Yes, the longer a relationship lasts, the more the partners know each other. But rest assured that, even with all the years of the world, you will never be able to understand and anticipate ALL the reactions of your darling. (Relationship Tips You Should Never Follow)
And for good reason, he/she herself would be hard pressed to tell you how he/she would react according to this or that event. And there is no harm in that. But keep this in mind: your other half is not a soothsayer, do not expect him/her to understand, guess and anticipate all your moods. So communicate!
6/ Having a baby will solve your couple problems (Relationship Tips You Should Never Follow)
The arrival of a baby within a couple is a wonderful event, but also a great upheaval. And very often, even if he/she will bring his/her share of happiness and love, it will also be accompanied by a good dose of additional stress, which can sometimes complicate your relationship with your partner.
Especially if you are not ready to have a child. So make sure you are financially and sentimentally stable before embarking on this great adventure. But anyway, never imagine that having a child will strengthen your relationship if it is already flapping.
7/ For your relationship to last, you will only need one thing: a lot of love
No unfortunately, love will not solve all your problems. At least not if you plan to make your relationship last over the years. You will also need respect, communication, fidelity, compassion, kindness, dedication etc… And this, from both partners! A relationship requires time and a lot of attention. It’s an everyday adventure! But who in the end will always be worth it
So no, without love, the couple will never be able to last. But love alone is not enough
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