Leaving one man for another
Leaving a person we love is not hard is SUPER complicated because we feel guilty, we doubt and we are afraid of having made the wrong choice. So when you decide to leave it for someone else it complicates the situation all the more. We are faced with a tsunami of questions that upsets us on all sides:
Am I making a mistake? Is this the right choice? Do I have to tell him that I am leaving him for another person? It is not a simple break but it is also a question of principles and honesty towards oneself and towards the other. In this article, I will try to open some doors of reflection in order to help you make the right choice. To leave one man for another is to decide to break a bond and hurt the heart, so you might as well do it after careful consideration.
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Leaving one man for another: how do you know if it’s the right choice?
If you want to leave your boyfriend because you have views on another person, you need to know where to go and what to decide. If you already have a relationship with another person, we are in a situation where you cheat on your partner. Whatever your situation, a decision must be made! You always have to be honest with yourself and others. You may want to take the time to think but it can have a negative impact because you risk getting bogged down in a situation that will quickly overtake you. Be that as it may, we must move towards a decision after taking the time to reflect.
advise you to take a moment to answer the following questions:
- What’s not working anymore in my relationship?
- Why am I attracted to another person?
- What are the strengths of this person?
- Is my boyfriend different? What for?
- What makes me feel better with the other person?
- What would it take for me to stay with my lover?
When you have taken the time to identify what is wrong and the reasons for your desire for another place, it will be time to ask yourself: Have I TRIED EVERYTHING to fix the situation in my couple? If you leave it is not to come back two days later, so think calmly before rushing. Leaving one man for another should never be done under impulse, anger or fear otherwise you will regret your gesture.
Will my life be more beautiful in the arms of another?
When you meet a new person you tend to put them on a foot of estate. Normal since we always show ourselves in our best light during a new meeting. You have to ask yourself if this “new” relationship can really bring you the love and support you deserve. Maybe you need to put yourself in “danger” to experiment. Otherwise, there is no point in not talking about it and causing collateral damage. Ask yourself if this new relationship is really worth ending your current story. In any case, a decision will have to be taken! If you are unhappy, if you have tried to improve the situation in vain, it is because it may be time to leave.
How to break? (Leaving one man for another)
When you decide to leave one man for another, you have to assume and respect the person you loved. There is no point in making long speeches that would only serve to make you doubt your decision. There is no point in doing him more harm than reason by telling him that you are leaving for another man. Announce your decision to end the relationship because your love is not as present as it used to be.
You are free to say everything but put yourself in his place: how would you react if the man you love told you that he was leaving you for another? evil! If despite everything, you want to tell him, do not go into details: announce that you have met someone and do not argue about the “why of the how”. There is no point in adding suffering in a situation that can destroy a heart.
How to manage the “after”?
When such a decision is taken, it must be fully taken into. That is why I insist on the prior reflection to have before leaving your partner. We do not leave to come back “after reflection”: we must respect the decision that has been taken. What matters is to be happy. Live your new relationship to the fullest in order to recharge your batteries and move forward. Try to manage the “terms” as quickly as possible. The move will have to be done in a very short period of time in order not to let the after-effects take up too many places. In relation to your ex, you must install a distance necessary for the reconstruction. After the fact, it will always be possible to install a friendship, BUT this is not at all the priority! (Leaving one man for another)
When such a decision is taken, it must be fully taken into. That is why I insist on the prior reflection to have before leaving your partner. We do not leave to come back “after reflection”: we must respect the decision that has been taken. What matters is to be happy.
Live your new relationship to the fullest in order to recharge your batteries and move forward. Try to manage the “terms” as quickly as possible. The move will have to be done in a very short period of time in order not to let the after-effects take up too many places. In relation to your ex, you must install a distance necessary for the reconstruction. After the fact, it will always be possible to install a friendship, BUT this is not at all the priority!
Finally…
Leaving one man for another is not an easy decision. Take the time to weigh the pros and cons and never act on an impulse. The heart is fragile and must be respected because wounds always take time to heal.
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