secret to being happy as a couple
Well ok, I admit that the title of this article makes you dream a little. But frankly, even if revelation is not enough to make a couple last for years, it contributes enormously!
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What is THE secret to being happy as a couple?
Information revealed by the U.S. Travel Association (an organization whose members are companies in the U.S. tourism sector, editor’s note) says that 77% of lovers who go together on a regular trip admit to being fulfilled in their relationship as well as… in their intimate lives.
It may seem like any stupid said like that but on reflection, it makes sense!
Indeed, traveling in pairs allows you to find yourself outside the daily and therefore, to say for several weeks bye bye to the routine!
Traveling as a lover also allows you to build tons of unforgettable memories, much more unforgettable than a branded bag or a Rolex! We meet new cultures, we share strong things, out of the ordinary, out of time, that bind us forever. Besides, for the anniversary of the 30th anniversary of my darling, I made him 7 photo albums with all our memories of travel and it moved him enormously! (secret to being happy as a couple)
Finally, when you have children, going in love can do a crazy good! Leave your babychou to your parents and give yourself time just two to breathe!
Yet, for many people, the first romantic journey is an often feared moment, especially when the two lovebirds do not yet live under the same you.
Travel together, it forges! (secret to being happy as a couple)
You will have understood, traveling in love is therefore the famous secret of happy couples!
Try to leave at least twice a year! Better to do twice a week than fifteen days in a row! We make a big trip in winter to go to the other side of the world, where it is hot when we peel them in Paris. And a second in summer, where we leave for a week or 10 days in Europe or France.
Yes, but we don’t all have the budget
humph… In fact, it is. Because traveling doesn’t mean spending fortunes. There are a thousand ways to travel according to budgets: roadtrip, backpack, tent, hotels, airbnb … But to avoid having to take out large sums of money you have to know how to do it in advance. We, for example, always take air tickets 4 to 6 months in advance to benefit from the most advantageous rates.
secret to being happy as a couple
I would also like to speak on a subject – I know that it will irritate some (e)s – strangely many people manage to find money when it comes to marriage (we are talking here about sums varying between 5000 and 50,000 euros). So where does this money come from? Personally, I prefer a thousand times to treat myself to extraordinary trips every year with my spouse rather than marry. I prefer 100 unforgettable days rather than one. But after that, that’s just my very personal opinion.
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Traveling is good… but on a daily basis? (secret to being happy as a couple)
Yes, I grant you, traveling is great, it solidifies the couple, makes them more complicit … But everyday life is still the majority of the time spent with two so it is THE that must be acted.
To be happy as a couple, there are in my opinion five golden rules:
1/ Stay independent and find its rhythm.
2/ Communicate and hear the expectations of the other.
3/ Maintain seduction and spice up desire.
4/ Find the balance of the couple.
5/ Know the language in love with the other and know how to speak it.
Read also: How to be happy as a couple on a daily basis?
I also invite you to discover our 10 commandments of a happy couple.
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