different forms of love
We all experience love differently. I often say that a couple is two individuals who form a new entity and this entity is therefore always unique… And can take different forms! There are no “good” or “bad” ways to love, what matters is that both partners find their account and flourish within the relationship.
Let’s see together the different types of love. We identified 9 of them:
9 different forms of love (different forms of love)
1/ Passionate love: This magical but ephemeral form of love
The passion comes from the Greek “Pathos” which means suffering, torment… We can already imagine the carnage that such a relationship can cause. Passion is beautiful, it’s strong, it’s intense… at the beginning of a relationship! But beware! Because if you continue like this for long months or even years, you will end up gutting yourself.
Indeed, you will no longer support the absence of the other, you will always need to be together, glued, to know everything that the other does… And, if unfortunately one of you stands out, even a little bit, the other will feel empty, annihilated. Passion is good from time to time, I can only recommend you to live moments of madness in love but be independent. Do not live for and through the other. (different forms of love)
To live a passionate love is to live in the permanent fear of losing the other at every moment and not succeeding in finding happiness without him.
2/ Dominant/dominated love: This form of love is destructive
This is often the case in couples where one manipulates the other. We can talk about narcissistic perverts or even violent men. In this type of relationship, one will seek to take power over the other, to control it and to make it his puppet.
Most of the time the “submissive” is not aware of this infernal situation and always questions himself. He will then seek to satisfy the expectations of his “executioner” whom he obviously does not see with this eye. (different forms of love)
3/ Platonic love: This form of love can be appreciated if both partners are on the same wavelength (different forms of love)
It is a caring and tender love that discards any intimate and carnal consideration in the couple. It is a very different intimacy that is experienced by the couple, who favors the sensitivity of words, the attention of gestures and the sweetness of looks to intimate relationships (it is of course always possible to kiss).
Platonic love is one of the most innocent forms of love, it is the symbol of chaste, pure love, and passes for “the most poetic and powerful of loves”… If it is mutually consented, this goes without saying!!!
4/ Respectful love: A beautiful form of love
If all platonic love is respectful, respectful love is not necessarily platonic! In this kind of relationship, the mutual respect and harmony of the two souls is at the center of everything. This kind of couple is therefore very autonomous, which leaves a great freedom to both partners, freedom that is based on total trust in the other.
It is a beautiful love, which is sometimes difficult to achieve but which is suitable for people who like to maintain their independence, even once in a relationship.
5/ Inaccessible love: A form of destructive love (different forms of love)
One-way love par excellence, even more than dominant/dominated love! We have almost all known this unattainable love, especially during our childhood or adolescence: falling madly in love with a person who is out of our reach, whether because of distance, age, status or many other criteria.
A teacher, a movie star, a famous singer… It is a fantasized love that we know is impossible but that does not prevent us from dreaming… Which is anything but a bad thing as long as this love does not turn into an obsession and that it does not cause suffering.
6/ Selfless love: A form of noble love
It is an infrequent form of love, but nevertheless present: this type of love is evoked when one of the partners wishes to give more than to receive. This partner makes the choice to get in a relationship with a person who needs help both physically and psychologically.
Altruistic, he/she will do everything in his/her power to make life more beautiful and pleasant for this person, and this, whatever some may think, who may be disturbed by this couple who does not enter “into the norm” (“what is he/she doing with this person, he/she deserves so much better!). (different forms of love)
7/ Tender love: A more than pleasant form of love
Opposable to passionate love, we find tender love in older couples for whom the fire still burns, but more gently. The flames of passion have given way to the embers of tenderness, less vivid, but not less burning! No more passionate vagaries of love, the couple seeks calm and stability conducive to a lasting relationship. Feelings are certainly attenuated but always present. T
his love is proof of the maturity of a relationship, which can last for a long time.
8/ Sensual Love: A Form of Steamy Love (different forms of love)
Love that can be compared to passionate and fusional love, this one takes into account above all carnal considerations. The partners then constantly feel an irrepressible physical attraction to each other, and rarely leave the duvet!
The intimate and carnal life is an essential component of the couple (but not obligatory for all that, see platonic love), and that, couples who live a sensual love have acquired it very well!
9/ Conflicting love: An explosive form of love
A love that is born when both partners are both endowed with strong characters, but they still love each other unconditionally. The couple’s weather barometer often says “Storm warning”, but despite appearances, they are a solid couple: even during their frequent arguments, there is never any question of a real separation.
This love can however be difficult to live in the very long term for the balance of the couple because it is certainly not easy!
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