enemies of the couple that must be avoided
To make a couple work, no miracle recipe, but only communication, a lot of communication, A LOT of communication! You can also watch this article on our tips for making a relationship last long temps. However, you can already identify the obstacles that come to stand in the way of you and your beautiful couple, to better dodge them! To help you, Afrilatest has identified 6 enemies of the couple that must be avoided:
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1/ Overtime
Staying a little later at work from time to time to put butter in spinach is good. Forgetting one’s family and marital duties, it’s less so… Don’t neglect your man/wife, or your children if you have any! Know how to make cuts, and spend more time with him/her/them! Do not hesitate to make a surprise by returning home earlier, if you are accustomed to the fact, the attention will necessarily be appreciated.
2/ Lack of attention (enemies of the couple that must be avoided)
Not easy with time to keep the passion of the beginnings, the passion of the first times! And yet, with time, comes the lack of attention, you do not look as much at your partner as before, talk to him less, listen to him less … So find the look you had in the early days for your partner. Learn to rediscover it, learn to admire it again! And above all, repeat to him the love that you have for him, spontaneously, for no particular reason. He/she will appreciate it very much!
3/ Your sofa
By this I mean the routine that sets in, the laziness that takes over the rest. No more evenings at the restaurant, outings to the cinema, concerts, or the theater, say hello to the eternal evenings wallowing in your sofa to watch more or less interesting programs on TV … So we get up, we take off our slippers, our plaid, and we go out to put some spice back in his life as a couple !!!
4/ Excessive jealousy (enemies of the couple that must be avoided)
Being jealous is natural, and not even necessarily bad… If it’s not excessive! Because there is nothing heavier and unpleasant in the long run to have an ultra jealous partner! In addition, tired and jaded by dint of having to justify yourself, and denying your smoky theories, you risk locking your partner in a self-fulfilling prophecy! Remember that trust is the cement of the couple, so don’t over-it unnecessarily.
5/ Abstinence
So here, be careful. If abstinence is wanted by both partners, in order to find themselves even better, even stronger after a few days / weeks / see months, then it can be a great experience for the couple! However, if you find yourself in the event that you or your partner finds himself dissatisfied with the other’s low libido, it is time to do something. Contact your partner! And/or consult a marriage counsellor to determine what is wrong with your relationship.
6/ Television (enemies of the couple that must be avoided)
Being able to be both responsible for the lack of communication and attention to the other, as well as idleness, television is a great object… But that can also be harmful for the couple if they do not use it properly! It is indeed tempting to let oneself be abruntled by the images as soon as one has free time as a couple… Rather than actually spending time with his/her partner… Maybe start already by limiting your viewing time per day, and see what new activities you can do during this freed time! You can also test our game to get to know you better
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