The ideal man is not the one you believe
When we seek love, we often tend to establish a long list of criteria that we would like to see in our man. And yet, two things really matter when it comes to love.
The first is to love. The second, to be loved. (The ideal man is not the one you believe)
Sounds silly and simple? Yes. So why do you continue with your list of criteria? The man you love may not correspond in any way to everything you had imagined or dreamed of!
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The ideal man. (The ideal man is not the one you believe)
What is the ideal man in the end? Well, the ideal man is the one who will make you feel strong even when you feel vulnerable. The one who will light up your day just with his smile. The ideal man is the one who will not make empty promises, who may not be comfortable with words but who will prove to you by deeds all his love.
Whether he is beautiful, rich, strong, intelligent, funny, does not matter! Because it is by loving him that you will find him strong, rich, beautiful, funny and intelligent! The ideal man will tell his friends how lucky he is to have met you, he will want to meet your loved ones, your family, your children if you have any.
The ideal man does not judge you. (The ideal man is not the one you believe)
He does not judge your behaviors a little strange, or your tics, toc or manias. He loves you in your entirety: as much for your qualities as your defects.
He listens carefully to you when things are going well and when things are not going well, he is always there for you and his arms open automatically when you are ready for him.
The ideal man will never try to change you either physically or mentally because otherwise, you would not be yourself and it is you that he fell in love with.
He will indulge (The ideal man is not the one you believe)
The ideal man will have no trouble in surrendering to you because he considers you as his accomplice, his confidante. The man who would follow you to the end of the world, just for your beautiful eyes…
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