More news overnight
It’s a situation that no one likes to find themselves in. Not receiving news overnight when everything seemed to be going well. It is difficult to understand. It is especially so because without news we can not have explanations and that is what makes you crazy! It is normal to want to understand the why of the how and possibly reverse the trend to start again on a good basis.
Be aware that sometimes, unfortunately, your questions will be unanswered and that it will have to be accepted. This does not mean that we should not still seek to know. More news overnight: why and what to do?
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First of all, why don’t you have any more news overnight?
While you were in a beginning of a sentimental relationship where everything was going well, in any case this is what it seemed to you, suddenly, overnight, more sound, more image. He or she disappears from your radars! This seems totally incomprehensible to you, you are asking yourself dozens of questions that all remain unanswered. Why such silence? And especially so sudden and without explanations? Here are some possible answers to your questions that can either reassure you or move you on.
#1 Your partner just wanted to have a good time
It is not necessarily pleasant to hear, but unfortunately it is sometimes the case. It is very likely that he or she just wanted to have a little good time without trying to go further. He or she just needed at that moment a little game of seduction that gave him/her confidence in him/her. Now that this game is over, there is no more interest in him/her so he or she no longer gives news. We agree, it is a reaction of enormous error but it happens. Just tell yourself that it is by no means your fault. Its cowardice and hypocrisy are not your responsibility.
#2 He or she is too busy (More news overnight)
This is a somewhat difficult pretext to admit. Indeed, who does not have one or two minutes in the day to reply to an SMS? Now it can still happen. A person with a very demanding job and endless or staggered schedules may take a lot of time or completely forget to answer you. If you have been warned beforehand you have a beginning of explanation, if this is not the case it may also be that this person does not really want to take the time to answer you In any case, it is a lack of respect and involvement in your story, even a nascent one.
#3 More news overnight because he or she has someone else
This is surely the excuse that you will like the least but at least you have the explanation. However, in this case, one wonders why he or she does not at least have the courtesy to warn you. Unfortunately this is happening more and more often. This person will tell himself that he owes you nothing, that with the other the current is better passed and that he is therefore focusing on this new story. Of course, some will still have the correction to prevent but do not be too under any illusions because many people shine by their cowardice.
#4 He or she has already gotten tired (More news overnight)
A real crush at the beginning and suddenly nothing more. It is surely a person who works impulsively, without thinking and it is after a few days or weeks that he realizes that he has packed too quickly. As with the other explanations, you are not responsible, it is a temperament to which you can do nothing.
This concept of consuming quickly does and then nothing spreads more and more. If many put forward the fear of commitment, most of the time it is not so and it is only about selfish people comfortable in their celibacy and their love game, preferring to collect adventures rather than land as a couple. His interest in you disappeared as quickly as it had come, it is up to you to accept it now.
#5 The (pseudo) fear of commitment
Some get scared very quickly… Even though you obviously didn’t talk about marriage and baby from the first appointments, he or she felt that you were ready on your side for a serious story. For his or her part, like many today, he or she does not want to attach himself or herself, let alone commit himself or herself.
The fact of telling himself that you are rather in a “normal” relationship approach in the end scared him. Rather than assume his choice, at least to explain himself or herself, he or she prefers to play the card of silence. It’s not very brave but that’s often how it happens, unfortunately.
#6 The great fashion of ghosting
You have probably been a victim of ghosting. What is it? Ghosting is a term that appeared a few years ago, from the English word “ghost” which means ghost. It is a phenomenon that has been amplified via dating sites and social networks. On the program, virtual drag, succession of appointments and ease to chain the blows of an evening. Even if the phenomenon is not new, the new technologies have accentuated everything.
Consumerist society emphasizes the “I want, I take and I throw away”. The relationship to the other is increasingly becoming a relationship to the object. In one click, I come into contact and in one click I leave the person, but without notifying him first. It has become a fashionable phenomenon that unfortunately defines more and more the current relationships of seduction and couple. And by having no more news overnight, you are surely a victim of ghosting.
More news overnight: what to do?
After the why, the question is “what to do”? First of all, is there anything to do in this situation? There is not much to do but just to go to the end of things and have no regrets, this is what you can try.
#1 Relaunch it without harassing it
Who does not try anything has nothing, you may not give up right away! An unanswered message does not always mean definitive radio silence. Then you can always try to revive it, without obviously harassing it or it. Try one small message a day for example for two or three days, then nothing more. And again a week later if you really can’t turn the page. If you don’t get any answers, it’s time to accept that this person doesn’t deserve you!
#2 The last chance
You had accepted this silence and finally a few days or weeks later, this person knocks on your door again. He or she has, according to him or her, an infallible excuse to explain his or her silence of recent times. It’s up to you to see if you think his sincere approach and if you want to try an appointment again. You may have a good surprise, after all the error is human. But you accept this once, not twice!
#3 Accept and relativize
There are times when there is no point in going after. You have relaunched one, two, three or even four times and all your messages have gone unanswered. It’s time to accept his silence even if you don’t understand why. We can’t have the answer to all our questions, accept this situation and move on is the best thing to do. And then put it in perspective because even if you had had a crush it is also not a great story where you were already talking about white dress and bottles!