Going out to the club with your boyfriend
Swaying on the dancefloor with friends, it’s really nice. And with his boyfriend, what about it? Carried away by the heat of the crowd, and the fiery excitement that rises, wouldn’t our darling be welcome? You are in a trance and you want him to share this madness that awaits you. It is time to look at this subject a little more closely. Going out in a club with your boyfriend: good or bad idea?
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Is this possible?
Of course it’s possible, why shouldn’t it be? Because you are afraid of arguments, reprisals, of not being able to have as much fun on the track as with your friends?
Obviously it also depends on the desires and jealousy of your friend…
He is jealous (basic) (Going out to the club with your boyfriend)
Some are so jealous that they go so far as to ban outings between girlfriends. If your boyfriend makes you undergo this, a tip, RUN AWAY! I know, it’s easy to say. I know what I’m talking about, I’ve been three years with a guy like that… Since then, as soon as I came across guys who didn’t leave me free, I boycotted!
brief. If he is jealous, he will prefer, in spite of himself, to follow you in a club. But then, how to do ??
How do I do this?
He is jealous, possessive, he does not let you breathe but wanted to accompany you to the club. Well yes, necessarily, monsieur acts as a watchdog and does not cease to mark his territory (yuck … let’s not imagine the scene). Well, I’ve already advised you to run away from this kind of guy but, I know, you’re addicted to him, you love him and too bad for his jealousy. either. So here are some tips to make sure your evening doesn’t fall by the water:
Dance with him: And especially with no one else! Imagine the scene: Cabbage goes to the toilet, a handsome young man takes your hands to make you twirl and while you are on a small cloud you fall face to face with your watchdog (your lover excuse me). I list the consequences? I do not think it will be helpful. So you dance with him and you show him that you’re glad he’s there. (Going out to the club with your boyfriend)
Staying next to him: He doesn’t want to dance? Too bad, you will be forced to stay by his side. Is he thirsty? You will also have to be thirsty. He wants to go to the toilet? Wait for him in front. Yes, it is very boring but there are no other alternatives. If he’s really jealous, he can’t stand to see you having fun without him. Oh no. (This is also one of the reasons that should put the chip in your ear. But hey, I say, I don’t say anything).
Dancing with your friends while looking at him sensually: If you have come with other friends at the Feminine, you can give yourself minutes of rest and go have fun with them. Not to mention looking at your boyfriend to show him that you see him, that he exists, that it is he that you like blablabla
Leave when he wants to: (Unless he got upset because it is to prove him right and then, he will yell at you, you will scream in your turn, you will cry, you leave and get back together the next day. All this is useless). If it is quite normal and in no way on the nerves, I strongly advise you to leave when he has decided. If you refuse, this is where the crisis will begin.
TAKEAWAY: Do whatever he wants, he’s the master. You know this, but you accept it and, above all, do not want to trigger yet another engueulade. (I’m sorry to be so pessimistic but jealous guys huh… We always let them pass everything and it becomes unbearable).
The risks (of going to a club with his jealous guy) (Going out to the club with your boyfriend)
Let a guy come and talk to you (and there will be some) è clash/crying/fear/breaking up
Let a guy look at you
Let him fight
Let him make you a scene
Let him go
May the dream evening turn into a nightmare
Dating a jealous guy in a box is very average. To tell you, I went out to the club with one of my ex one night (the jealous of the three years). It had been 7 or 8 months since we were together and yet, when a guy approached me he whispered in my ear “this is the last time you see me”. And he’s gone. Of course, I ran after him (I had no way to get home without his niark niark car). All this to say, that a jealous guy, like a jealous girl, has impulsive or even violent behaviors. During crises, it is no longer controlled. And the club is the best place for a guy to go completely mad with rage. Unless you have impeccable behavior… AND AGAIN! You are seriously likely to get angry before the end of the evening. Either you leave him or you take him to see a psychiatrist but be on your guard: you can’t change others.
You WANT him to accompany you (Going out to the club with your boyfriend)
It is you who insist that Chou accompany you to dance. Despite his haunting of nightclubs, he accepts to please you …
Let him royally immerse himself
That you are also bored: and yes, you see him there, sitting, bored. It doesn’t really make you want to go wild on the track…
Let him beg you to return at 1am when you arrived at 12.30am
Compromise.If he loves rock for example, agree to go see concerts with him. In exchange, he will come in a box with you and in addition, with a smile! If he really hates these places, spare him. Otherwise, you will have a very bad evening.
You both want to go out in a club together
That’s the BEST. If you are both attracted to this kind of dance party, why deprive yourself of it?
I used it often and it worked every time! YOU have a little aperitif with YOUR friends before going out. HE makes a small aperitif with HIS friends before going out. You give yourself the place of the appointment in advance. You leave on your side with your friends, warning Chou that you will soon arrive at your destination. So you arrive, you enjoy a little of the music and your girlfriends, you dance, you have fun on the track and there…. You will see your boyfriend and his friends arrive. You will be intoxicated, will want to join him and share this moment with him. Meanwhile, his friends will mix with yours and all this will form a very friendly little team. You can then enjoy your darling, your friends, his friends, the atmosphere in general! And that’s what you want, right?
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